Free advice : Take it or Leave it!!!


Hmmm …. Soooo here is free advice for those who care… My life experiences have taught me thus:

If someone cares about you and is kind to you… BEWARE!! Be prudent and alert.
If the person still continues to care.. Never NEVER let that person go.. Cherish him/her  always!

On the other hand
If you care about someone.. And that person is suspicious at first…let him/her be…continue to care and be kind. Despite such caring and kindness, however, if that person does not seem grateful…let him/her go….do not look back!!


What pisses me off?


What pisses me off is the fact that a beautiful friendship that could’ve lasted between a boy and a girl gets fucked up…totally fucked up…cause the girl develops ‘feeling’, feelings of bloody ‘love’ for that boy who she thought was the one person who truly understood her, who cared for her, who she could share her deepest thoughts with…all fucked up!!

In reality the boy sees girl as merely a ‘friend’, good friend even..but LOVE (na huh…zilch!!). Girl is faced with the hurtful dilemma of balancing friendship and her feelings of love. There are moments she wants her old buddy…times when she wished he could love her, acknowledge her feelings at least..moments she wants to spend time with him jjust to hear his voice and moments when she does not even want him in sight!

A pitiful condition…a condition where love fucks up a friendship!:(

Right to Live…….


Religion, philosophy, people and even science have all contributed their own definitions of the word ‘Life’. The word by itself means different things to different people. Some perceive it as a burden, others as a journey and still more tolerate it as a mere existence. But no matter how people define ‘life’, the fact of the matter remains that everyone desires and has indeed the right to live.

There are several legal, moral and social provisions that expressly declare the ‘Right to Life’ for all human beings. These provisions emphasize the right of persons to live in dignity, to be able to satisfy one’s basic needs i.e. food, clothing and shelter as well as avail of secondary needs like health, education, etc. Provisions thus made insist on respecting one’s right to live according to his/her needs, wants and desires and that no one not even one’s self can end life. But today, society is witness to such a lack of respect of Life as a concept, thereby rendering it necessary to ensure such provisions be enforced.  The appeal of life has plummeted to such levels that pro-life debates take centre stage in today’s media frenzy.

A question however needs to be asked, ‘Are these the provisions that give to us the ‘Right to Life’? or ‘Is it the fundamental right to live that requires such provisions to be made?’ Every individual has the right to live and taking deep interest in preserving and enhancing it is our DUTY. Life is the reason society exists and laws are made to protect society and thus LIFE! We often feel that Right to Life is associated with Article 21 of the Indian Constitution or The Universal Declaration on Human Rights and the like. But a deeper analysis will bring to light the fact that all laws are based on the premise that LIFE is to be protected. Consider perchance, The Narcotic Drugs and Psychotropic Substances Act, 1985 was enacted perhaps to control the flow of drugs in society but had drugs not affected the lives of people adversely would such a law been passed? The Dowry Prohibition Act, 1961 was indeed passed to prohibit the giving or taking of dowry…but in reality, it was passed to protect the life of the young bride often tortured by in-laws. Even offences like murder, public nuisance, bribery are considered so because they take away the right of a person to live in peace and harmony.

The concept of life cannot be restricted to human beings alone. It is much wider and covers all living beings including plants and animals. We have The Wildlife Protection Act and several other animal welfare legislations thus acknowledging the right of animals to live and enjoy the bounty of nature. Environmental laws exist because we recognize plants as living beings and ultimately the right of human beings to enjoy good and clean environment.

Life is beautiful. It involves experiences, triumphs and sorrows and it lies in our hands, how we choose to mould it. Let us make it our duty to spread a ‘Culture of Life’ rather than a ‘Culture of Just Living’.


Contrary Proverbs


All good things come to those who wait.
Time and tide wait for no man.

The pen is mightier than the sword.
Actions speak louder than words.

Wise men think alike.
Fools seldom differ.

The best things in life are free .
There’s no such thing as a free lunch .

Slow and steady wins the race .
Time waits for no man .

Look before you leap .
Strike while the iron is hot .

Do it well, or not at all.
Half a loaf is better than none.

Birds of a feather flock together.
Opposites attract.

Don’t cross your bridges before you come to them.
Forewarned is forearmed.

Doubt is the beginning of wisdom.
Faith will move mountains.

Great starts make great finishes.
It ain’t over ’till it’s over.

Practice makes perfect.
All work and no play makes Jack a dull boy.

Silence is golden.
The squeaky wheel gets the grease.

You’re never too old to learn.
You can’t teach an old dog new tricks

What’s good for the goose is good for the gander.
One man’s meat is another man’s poison.

Absence makes the heart grow fonder.
Out of sight, out of mind.

Too many cooks spoil the broth.
Many hands make light work.

Hold fast to the words of your ancestors.
Wise men make proverbs and fools repeat them



Have you ever been in love? Horrible isn’t it? It makes you so vulnerable. It opens your chest and it opens up your heart and it means that someone can get inside you and mess you up. You build up all these defenses, you build up a whole suit of armor, so that nothing can hurt you. Then one stupid person, no different from any other stupid person, wanders into your stupid life…You give them a piece of you. They dind not ask for it. They did somethingdumb one day, like kiss you or smile at you, and then your life isn’t your life anymore.
Love takes hostages. It gets inside you. It eats you out and leaves you crying in the darkness. So simple a phrase like, “maybe we shuold be just friends” turns into a glass splinter working its way into your heart. It hurts. Not just in the imagination. Not just in the mind. It’s a soul-hurt, a real gets-inside-you-and rips-you-apart pain 😦



Friendship is a strange thing…….
We find ourselves telling each other the deepest detail of our lives……
Things we don’t even share with our families……

But who is a friend……?

A Confidence?
A Shoulder to cry on?
An Ear to Listen?
A Heart to Feel?
A Friend can be all of these things and more…….

No matter wher we met…..
No matter how long we have been together…..
I call you a friend because…..

You read and Understand me Better than i do……

Its True….